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For God is no the Author of confusion but of peace............. 1 Cor 14:33
If there is one thing I hate, it is a bunch of confusion. Nothing Good comes out of confusion and drama yet some people love to dwell in it. We have all at some point in our live dealt with these type of people;Those who like to make a mountain out of a mole hill. Every situation, every conversation , no matter how big or small is a source of confusion. Maybe you have been that person who has been a confusion starter. We get mad at these types of people, we don't want them around and hate to see them coming.
Why do some people like confusion? After I really sat down to think about it these are some answers I came up with.
- People who are confusions starters are generally not happy with themselves, so instead of focusing on thier own unhappiness and dealing with thier issues , they choose to focus on anything other than themselves, which puts you and I in thier radar
- some people are just like that. They are messy at heart and like to cause confusion because they like this sort of thing. Some people, really can't help it if you can believe that. It's just their personality. They gossip, spread gossip and start drama. We can't change them, just accept them and handle them with a long handle spoon
- For some people their self esteem is so low that they make themselves feel important by creating nonsense
- People who are causing drama need help in understanding that its their own misery that keeps them in the drama. The freedom that I have found in focusing on me and my own pain and working through it, is priceless. I find the more I am ok with me, the less I care about what others think,do or say. You must be aware of yourself. Forget those people and turn them over to God.. Let go and let God deal with them
they get joy and pleasure in trying to ruin someone elses happy life.
it also gets the attention off of the happy person and on them. They tend to be attention-seekers
Living in peace requires action , which is on going. That's why Romans 12: 18 says If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men. Yes this even includes your enemies. Even though it is not easy to be peaceful with all people you are to keep trying. Living a peaceful life can only be accomplished through Gods help. Why ? because we serve a God of Peace (Romans 15:33.)
My Declarations
This year I am detemined to live a drama free existence. The situations I allowed to cause me stress and get me down last year I will not give power to this year.
I am determined not to stress myself out about other peoples lives because I have enough to deal with trying to run my own.
I am determined not to stress myself about my Job and the confusion that happens there on almost a regular I am putting that in God's Hands.
I am determined this year to step back and let God have his way in my life.
I am declaring and speaking into existence that 2012 is my year of no nore Drama.
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